Should I continue to beg my boyfriend just because my pastor said that it has been revealed to him that my he is my destined husband?
I’m a 24-year-old woman who has been dating this guy for about 4 years now who disvirgined me when I was 22 years old. This means we dated for approximately 2 years without having sex.
My pastor revealed to my mum that he is my future husband and that we are destined to marry each other. Pastor was very detailed, telling me his name, state of origin and even described his physical appearance accurately. All this convinced me that his revelation had to be genuine.
About the guy, he is caring, loving, handsome and also God-fearing. He loves me and I know it. He treats me like a queen and has introduced me to all his family members including extended ones, home and abroad. And they all claim that this is the first time he will be bringing a girl home.
But recently, he started acting funny. He gets several calls and text messages from several girls. Some girl sent me an invite on WhatsApp. One time, she updated her profile with photos of her and my boyfriend, kissing. I acted like I was cool with the girl, not letting her know how I actually felt. She probably thought that I am an ex girlfriend of his.
I saved those pictures and showed them to my dear boyfriend. He begged me and promised that he’ll let the girl go. We settled our differences and things were fine again between us or so I thought.
One morning, he came around. He had forgotten to clear his conversation with the girl. I went through his chat and discovered that they had fought previously but reconciled. My boyfriend sent her some ‘ I miss you’ and apology messages after she found out that I was his girlfriend. I confronted him again but this time around, he threatened me with a breakup.
I locked my door and hid the key because he vowed to breakup with me if he found his way out.
About me: I am a model, tall, slim, dark-skinned and beautiful. I won the most beautiful girl award for my department. I am any guy’s choice.
The question is: should I continue to beg my boyfriend just because it has been revealed by my pastor that he is destined to be my husband in future? I know God can’t lie but I can’t continue to beg just to hold a man. Or should I open the door and let him out of my life? Will I have a better option? We understand each other so well, we fight less and play more. I love him so much but I can’t keep begging him my entire life. What do you think?